A general PSA: if you keep wanting to cut off your toxic family, and you're in a position where you're able to: you can, and you should. You are NOT a bad person for doing it, you deserve love and safety.

I did it a few years back and yes it hurt like fuck at first, but the freedom afterwards, improved safety, better mental health and not constantly looking over my shoulder? Worth it a million times over.

@FrazzledBrynn I'm not in touch with my family at all anymore and we were never close to start with but ppl are always so weird about it and no ta i have a new family now

@FrazzledBrynn (piggybacking to say I second this message -- I cut off my family 6 years ago, it did hurt, and it was *totally* worth it. life was transformed for the better.)

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