My landlord has reimbursed me for the security system, offered to pay the subscription for a year, given me access to counselling, and started on every request I've made to ensure they can't doxx anyone again.
It happened because someone accidentally ticked the box which says they've been given consent. They've changed how it's done now, no accidental clicks. They will also do staff training on data protection several times this year.
Fuck em for having done it, but can't fault their response.
Hello to my new, better life.
He tried explaining the latter but didn't really know how, and I didn't trust it to not be my fault so tada, fucked up.
His not being able to care within about a minute of any confrontations mean he can't hold it against me, and though I feel guilty for it I now know I don't have to. Genuine fucking life changing revelation.
I always wanted to be comfortable just sitting in silence, not doing anything. Or cuddling up and doing different things, not talking. Spending nights alone, randomly walking out, saying I'm going off for a few days bye and not getting any issue. It turns out I had it all along I just didn't understand.
Our problems have always been about him not showing affection and getting annoyed a lot. Turns out he just hates touch and gets understandably frustrated generally rather than annoyed with me
We essentially just got a fresh start after several difficult years that were down to me not understanding and trying, and him not being able to communicate his feelings about it. And we get to just move on because he doesn't care about any of it..
She is such a blessing*
*she was hell to deal with for the first 7 years. Bunnies are hard pets and you probably don't want one. `
Holy shit the hits on this now 🤯
How wonderful. It's settling on everything, even the wet ground `
I guess I just wish I could make these people realise I'm a person too, just like them
I am so angry at how this is propagating, and so crushed at what it's doing to me