On disability and unintended, dehumanizing ableism behind some common compliments and advice.
I am not here to inspire you.
@sig I can tell you absolutely that you're not alone. This is a really common thing I hear from people. There's a lot of projection about what disability is or they feel should be and a lot is contradictory. You have to be everything at once and always stay within the lines of 'good disabled' to be humanized
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